Energy draining and barakah killing.
Making someone the centre of your world, attention and purpose all for nothing.
Loss of self-respect.
Islam came to free us from slavery, yet some of us literally worship another person.
One or the other gets taken for granted and that leads to loss of confidence, waste of emotions, pain and regret.
Please don’t do this to yourself, don’t open doors of pain on yourself.
These relationships will spiritually damage you and leave you with no motivation.
If you are spiritually and emotionally drained, then how will this impact your spouse who will have to play the role of a counselor, a healer, a therapist when they did nothing to deserve this.
Useless relationships today will take away the spark from a blessed life.
يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا لا تَتَّبِعُوا خُطُوَاتِ الشَّيْطَانِ وَمَن يَتَّبِعْ خُطُوَاتِ الشَّيْطَانِ فَإِنَّهُ يَأْمُرُ بِالْفَحْشَاء وَالْمُنكَرِ وَلَوْلا فَضْلُ اللَّهِ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَتُهُ مَا زَكَا مِنكُم مِّنْ أَحَدٍ أَبَدًا وَلَكِنَّ اللَّهَ يُزَكِّي مَن يَشَاء وَاللَّهُ سَمِيعٌ عَلِيمٌ
سورة النور ٢١
“O you who have believed, do not follow the footsteps of Satan. And whoever follows the footsteps of Satan – indeed, he enjoins immorality and wrongdoing. And if not for the favor of Allah upon you and His mercy, not one of you would have been pure, ever, but Allah purifies whom He wills, and Allah is Hearing and Knowing.”
Surah an Nur 21